I have zero doubt everyone is being held to the same standard, and am curious as to why you think that wouldn't be the case.
It could be as simple as Murrell and Abram give us things Paulsen values (defense, toughness, hustle) and Holloway doesn't.
Holloway is a good shooter who is a turnstile on defense. I had hoped he'd be far more than that at this point in his career, but the truth is, he didn't really bring a lot to the table even before his off-court issues.
Well, Grayer goes 0-15 in two games and doesn't get yanked.
Patrick Holloway gets suspended for 6 games for an offense that usually gets 1 (justification or not, 6 games was really harsh -- especially when you consider that the team was away in Charleston for 5 days and Patrick wasn't a part of that experience, so you've essentially made him an outsider).
I don't know what's going on behind the scenes, but for me I want to see if Paulsen can bring Holloway into the fold not just cast him aside. He might never be an elite defender, but is Marko?
Like I said, if Grayer or Moore or Otis is having a tough night, there's only one guard on our bench who we can turn to for points...and it's not Abram or Murrell at this point.