There are a lot of assumptions built in here about how I grew up, who my parents are and how they grew up, as well as my wife and her parents.
But to argue the points. One, 83% of Americans live in what would be considered an urban area (city + suburb). So, yes, the vast majority do (take Arizona, where I live, for example, 7.3 million people; 4.9 million live in the Phoenix metro area, another 1 million live in Tucson metro, another 139,000 live in Flagstaff -- that's 83% of the population of the state).
Two, the range on the new F-150 EV is 230 miles (or 300 miles for the long range version), so even if you had to travel 50 miles to the nearest hospital (this is not something you do daily, unless you work there) you're still within the range of an EV (the long range Tesla S is 400 miles, by the way). And considering you charge it at your home, you will have a full tank every single day, unlike an internal combustion engine, which requires a trip to the gas station.
Three, very few people are going to be traveling 150+ miles away from their homes by necessity daily in their personal vehicle. What you are describing is more recreational driving. Yes, my road trips from Arizona to Los Angeles or San Diego would become longer/harder and take more planning (right now we stop in Blythe at the McDonalds and gas up there before finishing the rest of the drive -- sometimes Quartzsite on the border for the "Very Fresh Jerky," which actually is really good, even if it's also really expensive) in an EV right now, but even then you could make it from Wise to Winston-Salem on a single charge. I could drive from my home to Williams where the Grand Canyon Railway is and take the train to the Grand Canyon while the car charges. I'd say for at least 95% of the driving age population, the current EVs would work for their needs, if they were within the means to buying them (price is probably a bigger barrier than logistics right now).
Four, no one is saying rip out all the gas stations and force everyone to buy an electric vehicle (I believe the current goal is for 50% of new cars sales be full EVs by 2030). I even offered up a compromise (bridge car), like a plug-in electric hybrid (PHEV). Something like a Honda Clarity, or a PHEV version of the Chrysler Pacifica (which still have a 3.6L V6 with 260 bhp, which kicks in after the first 32 miles of charge), there are a lot of options out there from your standard Prius to an Audi A8 to a Bentley to even a Ferrari if that's your jam.