I dont know, my family and I did discuss this at dinner. This thread has been going on for over seven years. My wife pointed out that in that time I could have learned a foreign language...finished the garage...gotten my pilots license...advanced my career...
Maybe she has a point. Maybe I DO hold grudges for too long. Maybe this thread is holding me back.
Anyway, I've got some real soul-searching to do.
There is always booze or confession - either can work