The beauty of sports and being a sports fan is how perspective matters. I just went back and looked at the predictions before the game started, and there were nine posters who predicted a loss and only two who said definitively they thought we would win (and one was Brian, so that barely counts
). The reality is we all went into this game sans Bailey thinking a lot had to go right on our end and wrong on their end to steal this one on the road.
Where the formula changed dramatically is we played well enough and they shit the bed enough for us to actually believe we had a chance to move this would-be loss over to the win column. Had we not watched the game and saw we lost by 1, we all likely would have been ecstatic with the outcome; but, because we lost it in the fashion we lost it — snatching defeat from the jaws of victory — it stings that much more.